Lol. "SOME" of it on himself. "WE" made you a punching bag.
This sounded more like a video to justify your complaints of things you always brought on yourself. Every fight started in your trying to icly pressure someone or flirt with them or force a deal on them. They'd tell you to fuck off, and your chara would not fuck off. Thus. He was attacked. And then sometime after the complaining you talked about some mechanics.